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Quite often people come to see me when
they're contemplating marriage to get my opinion on
whether or one not they will be happy together. I tell
them the only way I can be of assistance to them would
be to regress them to previous lifetimes when they were
married, and see how they did in those lifetimes. Obviously
the people I'm speaking with have to believe in reincarnation
and past lifetimes or they won't take seriously whatever
we find. It is surprising that in our Western society
so many people believe in past lives.
What I suggest to these people is that
I should do a dual regression on them, taking
them both back to at least three lifetimes when they
were married and see what kind of lifetimes those were
for them. That is, whether they were happy or miserable.
Actually, I do this quite often, and it is quite surprising
the results we get. If past lifetimes indeed exist,
then this should be a good way to find out how these
two personalities would fare together in a married relationship
in this lifetime. I happen to believe in past lifetimes
and in reincarnation, as do three quarters of the people
in the world.
The process of dual regression involves
having the two participants sit or lie close to one
another holding hands. I then unite their chakras. This
is important so that they both go back to the same lifetime.
I then put them both into deep hypnotic trance. Stage
V trance is required because true regression requires
the ability to hallucinate, and only in stage V can
hallucinations be obtained. Stage V is a relatively
deep hypnotic state and not all people can get into
stage V, so I usually do some depth testing procedures
on them to find out whether or not they are stage V
capable. When I'm sure that they can reach the required
depth, I put them both into deep trance hypnosis and
begin the process.
Let me illustrate this process by a
describing what happened recently with a couple that
came to me to find out how they would do if they were
married. They were contemplating marriage in the near
future. For the sake of clarity, the man's name was
Don and the girl's name was Mary. These were not their
real names to protect their anonymity. In each of the
regressions below, I use these names rather than the
names they had in the past life to avoid confusion.
I figured if I took them back to three
lifetimes when they were married and saw how those lifetimes
turned out for them that we would have a good idea about
how this one might turn out. So that's what I did.
Past Dual Lifetime Number One:
In this lifetime Don was a bricklayer
and Mary was a housewife. They had two children, a girl
and a boy. Don did not make much money as a bricklayer
and Mary was unhappy about her life, principally because
of the financial problems. This lifetime took place
in the 1930's. Don resorted to drinking heavily and
Mary became an adulterer. They ended up getting a divorce,
the children were unhappy and the couple was unhappy.
They both got married again to other people, and were
unhappy in those relationships also. They both lived
relatively long lives and died feeling unfulfilled.
Past Dual Lifetime Number Two:
In this lifetime Mary was a schoolteacher
and Don was a mechanic. Mary was quite religious and
Don was not. This caused a lot of problems between the
two of them. In addition, Mary felt that Don's educational
level was inferior to hers and she disrespected him.
Don felt the disrespect and took to drinking and seeing
other women. They ended up being divorced. Fortunately
they didn't have any children, so the children didn't
have to suffer the divorce. Neither ever married again
and both died relatively young, having lived unhappy
lives.
Past Dual Lifetime Number Three:
In this lifetime Don was an accountant
and Mary was a housewife. They had three children. The
children did well in school and Mary became deeply involved
in a golf country club that Don belonged to. Don loved
to golf and spent most of his leisure time on the golf
links. Mary didn't like golf and didn't like the fact
that Don was gone so much and so she nagged him about
it. Her nagging only drove him to spend more time on
the golf links. In addition he began to drink quite
heavily and got involved with several women who were
also members of the country club. Mary discovered his
involvement with these women and confronted him with
it and he said that he didn't care because he was very
unhappy with her. He thought that she should be golfing
with him instead of criticizing him for golfing so much.
This kind of argument led to many altercations between
them and they finally ended up getting divorced. Fortunately
they did not have any children, so the children didn't
have to suffer the divorce. Don remarried twice and
was not happy in either marriage. Mary remarried once
and was unhappy in that relationship. They died relatively
young feeling unfulfilled and like life had cheated
them.
When I finished with the three regressions
on Don and Mary, I brought them out of hypnosis, disunited
their chakras and we discussed the three regressions
that they had shared. They both decided that they were
not going to marry one another and they ended up not
doing so.
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