Two people fall in love - it starts out
great for them and then for one reason or another one
or both of the partners detaches or breaks it off. One
or both of the partners can't seem to get the other
person out of their mind and behaves irrationally in
this area of their lives, although they may seem quite
sane otherwise. Even in their dreams as well as in their
waking moments, they are thinking of the other person
to the point where they are ruining their own life.
This happens a lot and I have helped many people with
this kind of problem for many years. So, what causes
this persistence of one person's energy in the life
of the other person and causes so much turmoil and grief?
The answer, in almost all cases is the transfer of soul-mind-fragments
(SMF) from one person to the other.
The mind has a survival
coping mechanism called "disassociation" which
it uses to protect ones sanity if one is subject to
a traumatic occurrence, which the mind cannot handle.
This survival mechanism is a very primitive part of
us and can cause problems for many people later in life.
The disassociation creates a sub-personality, frozen
in time at the age when the disassociation trauma occurred
and stuffs the trauma energy, which created it into
the sub-personality, submerges the sub-personality into
the subconscious mind and the conscious mind is unaware
This disassociated sub-personality
is called a Soul-Mind Fragment (SMF). In the psychiatric
and psychological worlds, soul-mind fragments are often
called "ego states". The trauma energy in
the SMF is still affecting the person, but he doesn't
consciously know it is there. A lot of "free floating
anxiety" is caused by these phenomena. Children
tend to disassociate much more often than adolescents
or adults because traumatic happenings that might scare
or sadden a child might not deeply affect an older person
because of his experience. That is why we tend to find
many more "inner children" than we do "inner
adolescents" or "inner adults" when we
search for soul-mind fragments.
Sometimes, the SMF can
be transferred to another person. When it does, it brings
the energy within the SMF to the other person. The other
person now has to deal with the energy within the SMF
just as though it were his own energy. The person who
lost the SMF is now deprecated because part of his soul
is missing and this can cause illness. Native American
Shamans go into a vision quest trance and go out into
the existence planes and retrieve the SMF, heal it and
then return it to the person who lost it and the Indian
gets well. This is called soul retrieval.
The competent hypnotherapist
must find the foreign SMF within his client, disengage
it, heal it and send it back along the silver cord,
which connects it to the person who lost the fragment.
The client is now free of the energy of the foreign
SMF and the person who lost the SMF is also healed because
he receives back the part of his soul, which was missing
less the energy, which created it. You never want to
send a SMF back to the person who lost it without first
healing it by releasing the trauma energy within that
You can possess the
SMF of dead people as well as alive people. The SMF
is formed and transferred when the person was alive,
but the person may die and the client can still have
it attached to him. When we release the SMF of a dead
person, we heal it and send it back to his deprecated
soul on the astral level and his soul now becomes complete.
This action frequently will release earthbound spirits
who may be haunting people or places.
Soul-mind fragment entities
are easily passed between people engaging in sexual
intercourse. The openness and surrender of the sex act
can lower the Guardian Chi protective system so these
SMF's can easily attach to you
and you are thereafter
irrevocably tied to the other person whether you want
to be or not. This is why so many divorced people are
still tied to their former spouses and people in a sexual
relationship cannot get rid of their former lover once
they are separated. The SMF is an entity, just like
a demon or earthbound spirit. If you engage in sex with
a person who has the SMF of his previous sex partner
still attached to him, you can even pick up the SMF
of the previous partner and all the negativity that
goes with it.
like all foreign energies (entities) are a negative
forcing function just like repressed memories of this
life, trauma from past lives, unresolved internal conflicts,
biological carry-overs from ancestors and the attachment
of other foreign energies. All negative forcing functions
distort the body's energy field and block the flow of
chi to the cell communities of the body causing illness
in body and/or mind. Negative forcing functions also
install their negative programs on the subconscious
mind's virtual hard drive and then energetically support
the negative programs. The SMF is a foreign energy,
and like all foreign energies, distorts the body's energy
field, and blocks the flow of life-giving chi energy
needed by the body's cell communities for health.
The removal and release
of the trauma energy in any SMF is of paramount importance
to achieving mental, emotional, physical and spiritual
health. If your hypnotherapist neglects this vital negative
forcing function, you will not be healed, no matter
what else he does.
So, if you are still
"experiencing" your former partner and you
want to be done with the partner, it is probably because
the SMF of one or both of the partners are attached
to the other partner. I know how to find and remove
SMF's and I do it regularly for people who are caught
in this situation. It is very common.