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Sexual Addiction andPast Lives
By Charles
Wm. Skillas, Ph.D., DD, BCH, FNGH, CI
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More women come to me with complaints about the men in
their lives who are addicted to sex than men about women,
but actually, they are very close together from my experience.
Both men and women can be addicted to sex and when it
happens, it can wreck havoc with relationships. It can
destroy them. Being addicted to sex can be a good thing
if both partners feel the same way, but if not, it can
be a big problem. Between two people, their sexual appetites
can be much different. Men with voracious sexual appetites
paired with a wife or girl friend that doesn't have the
same hunger oftentimes seek out other women for gratification.
This infidelity can ruin the marriage or relationship.
The same can happen if the woman has the big sex appetite
and the man has not. The problems that can develop can
be religious, depression, feelings of inadequacy, low
self-esteem, guilt and a host of other difficulties ruining
the rapport between the partners. This article, however,
is not about different appetites, but rather about one
possible reason for why people get into this kind of situation
and why there is only one way to resolve it. It has to
do with past lives.
During my almost 30 years in practice, I have encountered
this problem many times. In most cases it has been the
man who had the problem, rather than the woman, although
the opposite has occurred often also. Let me cite a
recent occurrence to put this in perspective and show
you how it happens. This happening is, by no means,
atypical of many, many other similar happenings and
so it illustrates a very common state of affairs that
happens.
A strikingly beautiful young sexy woman named Susan
calls me to ask for help with her lover, Tony, who is
having affairs with many other women and she is distraught
about the survivability of their relationship. They
have been together for several years and are mutually
compatible except for this problem. She knows about
the affairs and has confronted her male lover about
the problem. He says that he is driven to have the affairs
and that something within him is forcing him to act
as he is doing. He claims that he loves her deeply,
but is powerless to resist the temptations of other
women. To further complicate the problem, he seems to
subconsciously seek out these illicit affairs in spite
of his repeated promises to Susan that he will no longer
engage in them.
I saw Tony for a number of sessions and discovered
that not only was he infested with demonic energies
that were trying to destroy him, but that he had at
least 3 past lifetimes in which he was denied the company
of women and that this deprivation energy was coming
over to him in this lifetime and causing him to behave
illicitly with women he was attracted to. In the 3 past
lifetimes we investigated, Tony was a female nun in
a convent in one of them, a male monk in a monastery
in another lifetime and a male prisoner in a dungeon
in a 3rd. lifetime. In all 3 of these lifetimes, Tony,
whoever he was in those lifetimes, was denied the company
of the opposite sex. This energy was coming over to
Tony in this lifetime and causing him to unconsciously
seek out gratification of those unfulfilled sexual desires
from the past lifetimes. The demons in him saw this
as an opportunity to destroy him in this lifetime because
he is a good person and felt tremendous guilt about
his sexual indiscretions. Guilt requires punishment
and who punishes us but ourselves. In this self-punishment
are the objectives of the demons met in self-destruction.
Once we released the energy coming over from these
3 lifetimes of enforced celibacy, Tony was released
from his tremendous subconscious sexual urges and found
happiness with Susan and their relationship was saved
and they were happy together without guilt or unfulfilled
desire.
This is not unlike other cases I have had with people
who stuff themselves with food far beyond their needs
and become obese because in past lifetimes, they either
starved to death in a death camp or were too poor to
satisfy their body's need for nourishment. The same
psychodynamic is working in both cases. People who have
these kinds of problems should seek out hypnotherapists
who understand these dynamics and get cleared of the
energies of destruction before they destroy them.
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