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Many of
my female clients have big trouble with men. I also
get many men who have trouble with women, but the preponderance
is with the women. This may be due to the increased
sensitivity of women to emotional turmoil or maybe men
just don't admit their problems as readily as women
do. Many of these problems come from early childhood
in this life, but they can also come from past lives
or any of the other negative forcing function programs
embedded in the subconscious which affect our behavior,
how we feel and how we respond to life. A common problem
theme for women is their relationship with their fathers.
Dorothy,
39, intelligent, well educated and model beautiful came
to me a couple of years ago complaining that she was
very unhappy with the men she attracted and that her
relationships always ended without any commitment or
long term security for her. She had a history of headaches
and persistent depression that interfered with her job
and enjoyment of life, but her biggest complaint was
her man problem. She would like to be married and have
children, but it never worked out. She wanted help with
the headaches and depression and in drawing the right
kind of men into her life.
It took
four sessions to get rid of entity attachments, which
were drawn to her by her depression. She had two demons,
an earthbound spirit and a soul-mind fragment of someone
else on her. These entities were able to attach to her
because her Guardian Chi psychic immune system was down
because of the sadness she felt. Her light attracted
the demons to her as she was very spiritual and they
brought in the earthbound spirit and soul-mind fragment,
which caused the headaches and exacerbated the depression
sadness.
Once the
attachments were gone, using Parts Therapy, we were
able to ascertain that she greatly loved her father
and was very close to him but he left because of divorce
when she was 4 years old causing her great fear and
loss. Her child mind concluded that if she were to ever
get close to another man like she was to her father,
and he left her, she would re-experience the same 4-year-old
grief agony so she unconsciously protected herself against
this happening by never allowing any true intimacy into
her relationships to prevent being hurt again. It turned
out that her man problem was not in the men, but rather
in her, and it was she, not the men that were causing
her problems with men. Within two weeks, her headaches
and depression were gone and with her new insight, she
was able to re-examine her current relationship from
a different perspective.
Recently,
I received a call from her telling me that not only
was she still free from the headaches and depression,
but that she was looking forward to getting married.
She said she was experiencing an inner peace that had
eluded her all of her life and was truly happy.
Disclaimer:
This article is intended for general informational purposes
and does not provide medical, psychological, or other
professional advice.
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